Showing posts with label Ruined Orgasm. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Ruined Orgasm. Show all posts
Sunday, August 14, 2011
Thursday, August 4, 2011
Tuesday, July 26, 2011
Q & k honour us with a special post...
I was most surprised to find a special post in Mistress R and mine's honour on k's site this morning (iHonorHer). What is truly amazing about it is that they have chosen to post a GIF made from the very video that started my interest in ruined orgasms, indeed if you have read 'Out of Your Hands*' you may recognize the video in question from the description I gave. But then it's perhaps not such a surprise, being that Klixen does make the best ruined orgasm videos! In addition to this 'Q' posted this reply yesterday to my comment about Goodhubby's 'accident'...
Q said said...
Please convey to Mistress R., that to watch her sub struggle to hold back, and then fail, only to have his semen simply ooze and spill out the tip of his cock is truly a fascinating sight to behold, and quite humorous to watch! And if she might follow my lead, punishment for an unauthorized orgasm might be applied immediately! See, the spanking is much more painful when the sexual tension in the male has been diminished by ejaculation. Just ask k!
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Oh, and I would never on purpose build him up so close to the edge that he couldn't possibly hold his orgasm back, just so I could ruin it and laugh at his frustration, and then administer a painful spanking to his cute little backside for cumming without my permission now would I?
But don't expect this to happen overnight... sometimes Mistress R tells me that though she loves reading the blog, sometimes she feels like she is being pressurized into doing things that she doesn't really want to do... and this seems to be one of those things. On the other hand, I'm bound to cum without permission sooner or later and we'll just have to see what happens then. Like NW I'm sure Mistress R's first instinct will be to 'finish me off', but in all honesty I hope she doesn't.
*Unfortunately 'Out of Your Hands' is the one story I wrote that Mistress R really didn't like, and in fact didn't read that much of, mainly because it was written from 'her' perspective and that made her uncomfortable with it.
Q said said...
Please convey to Mistress R., that to watch her sub struggle to hold back, and then fail, only to have his semen simply ooze and spill out the tip of his cock is truly a fascinating sight to behold, and quite humorous to watch! And if she might follow my lead, punishment for an unauthorized orgasm might be applied immediately! See, the spanking is much more painful when the sexual tension in the male has been diminished by ejaculation. Just ask k!
.
Oh, and I would never on purpose build him up so close to the edge that he couldn't possibly hold his orgasm back, just so I could ruin it and laugh at his frustration, and then administer a painful spanking to his cute little backside for cumming without my permission now would I?
But don't expect this to happen overnight... sometimes Mistress R tells me that though she loves reading the blog, sometimes she feels like she is being pressurized into doing things that she doesn't really want to do... and this seems to be one of those things. On the other hand, I'm bound to cum without permission sooner or later and we'll just have to see what happens then. Like NW I'm sure Mistress R's first instinct will be to 'finish me off', but in all honesty I hope she doesn't.
*Unfortunately 'Out of Your Hands' is the one story I wrote that Mistress R really didn't like, and in fact didn't read that much of, mainly because it was written from 'her' perspective and that made her uncomfortable with it.
Q & k honour us with a special post...
I was most surprised to find a special post in Mistress R and mine's honour on k's site this morning (iHonorHer). What is truly amazing about it is that they have chosen to post a GIF made from the very video that started my interest in ruined orgasms, indeed if you have read 'Out of Your Hands*' you may recognize the video in question from the description I gave. But then it's perhaps not such a surprise, being that Klixen does make the best ruined orgasm videos! In addition to this 'Q' posted this reply yesterday to my comment about Goodhubby's 'accident'...
Q said said...
Please convey to Mistress R., that to watch her sub struggle to hold back, and then fail, only to have his semen simply ooze and spill out the tip of his cock is truly a fascinating sight to behold, and quite humorous to watch! And if she might follow my lead, punishment for an unauthorized orgasm might be applied immediately! See, the spanking is much more painful when the sexual tension in the male has been diminished by ejaculation. Just ask k!
.
Oh, and I would never on purpose build him up so close to the edge that he couldn't possibly hold his orgasm back, just so I could ruin it and laugh at his frustration, and then administer a painful spanking to his cute little backside for cumming without my permission now would I?
But don't expect this to happen overnight... sometimes Mistress R tells me that though she loves reading the blog, sometimes she feels like she is being pressurized into doing things that she doesn't really want to do... and this seems to be one of those things. On the other hand, I'm bound to cum without permission sooner or later and we'll just have to see what happens then. Like NW I'm sure Mistress R's first instinct will be to 'finish me off', but in all honesty I hope she doesn't.
*Unfortunately 'Out of Your Hands' is the one story I wrote that Mistress R really didn't like, and in fact didn't read that much of, mainly because it was written from 'her' perspective and that made her uncomfortable with it.
Q said said...
Please convey to Mistress R., that to watch her sub struggle to hold back, and then fail, only to have his semen simply ooze and spill out the tip of his cock is truly a fascinating sight to behold, and quite humorous to watch! And if she might follow my lead, punishment for an unauthorized orgasm might be applied immediately! See, the spanking is much more painful when the sexual tension in the male has been diminished by ejaculation. Just ask k!
.
Oh, and I would never on purpose build him up so close to the edge that he couldn't possibly hold his orgasm back, just so I could ruin it and laugh at his frustration, and then administer a painful spanking to his cute little backside for cumming without my permission now would I?
But don't expect this to happen overnight... sometimes Mistress R tells me that though she loves reading the blog, sometimes she feels like she is being pressurized into doing things that she doesn't really want to do... and this seems to be one of those things. On the other hand, I'm bound to cum without permission sooner or later and we'll just have to see what happens then. Like NW I'm sure Mistress R's first instinct will be to 'finish me off', but in all honesty I hope she doesn't.
*Unfortunately 'Out of Your Hands' is the one story I wrote that Mistress R really didn't like, and in fact didn't read that much of, mainly because it was written from 'her' perspective and that made her uncomfortable with it.
Monday, July 25, 2011
Too close to the edge...
Another great post over at Goodhubby's site today, in which he explains what happened when he got too close to the edge and fell off the edge. In his wife's words:
“It was really cool watching it ruin. Watching you swell, and pulse, the actual spurts.
Watching you consciously choose not to touch yourself.
It was hard to let it ruin though – my first impulse was to help it, to finish it.
But at the same time I didn’t want it to be a good one because I didn’t want you to come.”
I hope when it eventually happens, Mistress R is strong enough to let me suffer too. You can read the whole story here
“It was really cool watching it ruin. Watching you swell, and pulse, the actual spurts.
Watching you consciously choose not to touch yourself.
It was hard to let it ruin though – my first impulse was to help it, to finish it.
But at the same time I didn’t want it to be a good one because I didn’t want you to come.”
I hope when it eventually happens, Mistress R is strong enough to let me suffer too. You can read the whole story here
Too close to the edge...
Another great post over at Goodhubby's site today, in which he explains what happened when he got too close to the edge and fell off the edge. In his wife's words:
“It was really cool watching it ruin. Watching you swell, and pulse, the actual spurts.
Watching you consciously choose not to touch yourself.
It was hard to let it ruin though – my first impulse was to help it, to finish it.
But at the same time I didn’t want it to be a good one because I didn’t want you to come.”
I hope when it eventually happens, Mistress R is strong enough to let me suffer too. You can read the whole story here
“It was really cool watching it ruin. Watching you swell, and pulse, the actual spurts.
Watching you consciously choose not to touch yourself.
It was hard to let it ruin though – my first impulse was to help it, to finish it.
But at the same time I didn’t want it to be a good one because I didn’t want you to come.”
I hope when it eventually happens, Mistress R is strong enough to let me suffer too. You can read the whole story here
Sunday, July 17, 2011
Following up on the last post...
So last night as I posted, Mistress R and I discussed the whole 'Femdom session' issue, with regards to the fact that the sessions have always resulted in an orgasm for me and how that was creating an issue now that I had hit the 28 days barrier, and how could Mistress make me wait longer because the sessions would get in the way.
Mistress was seeking reassurance that I was indeed happy to let go of that last 'safety-net' and put my orgasms completely in her hands. This is great, but it does throw up a couple of other things which may need further clarification.
During our discussion Mistress asked me if she should leave some kind of build up period, kind of like we used to do in the early days, a three or four day stint of chastity before the session. Having thought about this I don't think this is particularly necessary, I was going to say that she should not let me cum the day before the session, but there's no good reason for that, and since she now fully understands that she can let me cum whenever she likes, there's nothing to stop her having me cum two days in a row if that's what she chooses.
As far as I am concerned there simply is no right or wrong time, there is only when she decides, and if she later decides it was the wrong time, well it's not the end of the world is it.
The other thing that occurred to me this morning was that since the 30th of April I have cum three times, twice in the session and once inside her (which sadly didn't result in a cream pie for me). I know I have said this before, repeatedly, but now it's even more important since I am just as likely to cum out of a session than in one.
Every time I came in session for the last year or so, Mistress has had me lick my cum off her hands, feet or breasts (licking your cum off your Mistress's breasts is fucking hot let me tell you!) and I want her to be 100% confident that EVERY time I am allowed to cum, whenever that may be, she can make me swallow it if she wants to. As far as I am concerned I have 100% accepted that every chance to cum is potentially going to lead to me cleaning it up with my tongue, and I am totally fine with it. And if I have been allowed to cum inside her, then I am more than fine with it, I am positively eager to clean her pussy with my tongue.
I can't think of anything which demonstrates my submission to Mistress R more effectively than swallowing my own cum, and one day I hope she will have me swallow the proceeds of a ruined orgasm, thereby underlining her complete and utter control of my cock and orgasms...
Mistress was seeking reassurance that I was indeed happy to let go of that last 'safety-net' and put my orgasms completely in her hands. This is great, but it does throw up a couple of other things which may need further clarification.
During our discussion Mistress asked me if she should leave some kind of build up period, kind of like we used to do in the early days, a three or four day stint of chastity before the session. Having thought about this I don't think this is particularly necessary, I was going to say that she should not let me cum the day before the session, but there's no good reason for that, and since she now fully understands that she can let me cum whenever she likes, there's nothing to stop her having me cum two days in a row if that's what she chooses.
As far as I am concerned there simply is no right or wrong time, there is only when she decides, and if she later decides it was the wrong time, well it's not the end of the world is it.
The other thing that occurred to me this morning was that since the 30th of April I have cum three times, twice in the session and once inside her (which sadly didn't result in a cream pie for me). I know I have said this before, repeatedly, but now it's even more important since I am just as likely to cum out of a session than in one.
Every time I came in session for the last year or so, Mistress has had me lick my cum off her hands, feet or breasts (licking your cum off your Mistress's breasts is fucking hot let me tell you!) and I want her to be 100% confident that EVERY time I am allowed to cum, whenever that may be, she can make me swallow it if she wants to. As far as I am concerned I have 100% accepted that every chance to cum is potentially going to lead to me cleaning it up with my tongue, and I am totally fine with it. And if I have been allowed to cum inside her, then I am more than fine with it, I am positively eager to clean her pussy with my tongue.
I can't think of anything which demonstrates my submission to Mistress R more effectively than swallowing my own cum, and one day I hope she will have me swallow the proceeds of a ruined orgasm, thereby underlining her complete and utter control of my cock and orgasms...
Following up on the last post...
So last night as I posted, Mistress R and I discussed the whole 'Femdom session' issue, with regards to the fact that the sessions have always resulted in an orgasm for me and how that was creating an issue now that I had hit the 28 days barrier, and how could Mistress make me wait longer because the sessions would get in the way.
Mistress was seeking reassurance that I was indeed happy to let go of that last 'safety-net' and put my orgasms completely in her hands. This is great, but it does throw up a couple of other things which may need further clarification.
During our discussion Mistress asked me if she should leave some kind of build up period, kind of like we used to do in the early days, a three or four day stint of chastity before the session. Having thought about this I don't think this is particularly necessary, I was going to say that she should not let me cum the day before the session, but there's no good reason for that, and since she now fully understands that she can let me cum whenever she likes, there's nothing to stop her having me cum two days in a row if that's what she chooses.
As far as I am concerned there simply is no right or wrong time, there is only when she decides, and if she later decides it was the wrong time, well it's not the end of the world is it.
The other thing that occurred to me this morning was that since the 30th of April I have cum three times, twice in the session and once inside her (which sadly didn't result in a cream pie for me). I know I have said this before, repeatedly, but now it's even more important since I am just as likely to cum out of a session than in one.
Every time I came in session for the last year or so, Mistress has had me lick my cum off her hands, feet or breasts (licking your cum off your Mistress's breasts is fucking hot let me tell you!) and I want her to be 100% confident that EVERY time I am allowed to cum, whenever that may be, she can make me swallow it if she wants to. As far as I am concerned I have 100% accepted that every chance to cum is potentially going to lead to me cleaning it up with my tongue, and I am totally fine with it. And if I have been allowed to cum inside her, then I am more than fine with it, I am positively eager to clean her pussy with my tongue.
I can't think of anything which demonstrates my submission to Mistress R more effectively than swallowing my own cum, and one day I hope she will have me swallow the proceeds of a ruined orgasm, thereby underlining her complete and utter control of my cock and orgasms...
Mistress was seeking reassurance that I was indeed happy to let go of that last 'safety-net' and put my orgasms completely in her hands. This is great, but it does throw up a couple of other things which may need further clarification.
During our discussion Mistress asked me if she should leave some kind of build up period, kind of like we used to do in the early days, a three or four day stint of chastity before the session. Having thought about this I don't think this is particularly necessary, I was going to say that she should not let me cum the day before the session, but there's no good reason for that, and since she now fully understands that she can let me cum whenever she likes, there's nothing to stop her having me cum two days in a row if that's what she chooses.
As far as I am concerned there simply is no right or wrong time, there is only when she decides, and if she later decides it was the wrong time, well it's not the end of the world is it.
The other thing that occurred to me this morning was that since the 30th of April I have cum three times, twice in the session and once inside her (which sadly didn't result in a cream pie for me). I know I have said this before, repeatedly, but now it's even more important since I am just as likely to cum out of a session than in one.
Every time I came in session for the last year or so, Mistress has had me lick my cum off her hands, feet or breasts (licking your cum off your Mistress's breasts is fucking hot let me tell you!) and I want her to be 100% confident that EVERY time I am allowed to cum, whenever that may be, she can make me swallow it if she wants to. As far as I am concerned I have 100% accepted that every chance to cum is potentially going to lead to me cleaning it up with my tongue, and I am totally fine with it. And if I have been allowed to cum inside her, then I am more than fine with it, I am positively eager to clean her pussy with my tongue.
I can't think of anything which demonstrates my submission to Mistress R more effectively than swallowing my own cum, and one day I hope she will have me swallow the proceeds of a ruined orgasm, thereby underlining her complete and utter control of my cock and orgasms...
Friday, June 24, 2011
Tuesday, June 21, 2011
So lucky...
I've just spent a lovely hour in bed with Mistress R, which included a lovely orgasm for her and a wonderful session of teasing for me... I am so, so lucky. I love cuddling up to her afterwards, kissing her and just feeling her close to me, I could have stayed there all night... ah well, just four more days until Saturday. I do hope Mistress calls on my services before then though...
And what of Saturday, I see that the 'Ruined Orgasm' option is creeping up in the poll now, but I still remain convinced only 3 of you are going to be getting your wish. But maybe I'm wrong, maybe Mistress R is starting to think of extending my denial? It was a surprise when she pushed it back a week, so what's to stop her doing it again?
Maybe she'll go the whole session letting me believe I'm going to be allowed to cum, then ruin my orgasm and then make me wait another month! Ooooh, that's evil and hot!
Well, maybe not just yet, but give it a few more months... and who knows. I never dreamed Mistress R would make me wait this long, although of course I wanted her to (and much more!), and it definitely seems to be making both of us very, very happy, so why not?
And what of Saturday, I see that the 'Ruined Orgasm' option is creeping up in the poll now, but I still remain convinced only 3 of you are going to be getting your wish. But maybe I'm wrong, maybe Mistress R is starting to think of extending my denial? It was a surprise when she pushed it back a week, so what's to stop her doing it again?
Maybe she'll go the whole session letting me believe I'm going to be allowed to cum, then ruin my orgasm and then make me wait another month! Ooooh, that's evil and hot!
Well, maybe not just yet, but give it a few more months... and who knows. I never dreamed Mistress R would make me wait this long, although of course I wanted her to (and much more!), and it definitely seems to be making both of us very, very happy, so why not?
So lucky...
I've just spent a lovely hour in bed with Mistress R, which included a lovely orgasm for her and a wonderful session of teasing for me... I am so, so lucky. I love cuddling up to her afterwards, kissing her and just feeling her close to me, I could have stayed there all night... ah well, just four more days until Saturday. I do hope Mistress calls on my services before then though...
And what of Saturday, I see that the 'Ruined Orgasm' option is creeping up in the poll now, but I still remain convinced only 3 of you are going to be getting your wish. But maybe I'm wrong, maybe Mistress R is starting to think of extending my denial? It was a surprise when she pushed it back a week, so what's to stop her doing it again?
Maybe she'll go the whole session letting me believe I'm going to be allowed to cum, then ruin my orgasm and then make me wait another month! Ooooh, that's evil and hot!
Well, maybe not just yet, but give it a few more months... and who knows. I never dreamed Mistress R would make me wait this long, although of course I wanted her to (and much more!), and it definitely seems to be making both of us very, very happy, so why not?
And what of Saturday, I see that the 'Ruined Orgasm' option is creeping up in the poll now, but I still remain convinced only 3 of you are going to be getting your wish. But maybe I'm wrong, maybe Mistress R is starting to think of extending my denial? It was a surprise when she pushed it back a week, so what's to stop her doing it again?
Maybe she'll go the whole session letting me believe I'm going to be allowed to cum, then ruin my orgasm and then make me wait another month! Ooooh, that's evil and hot!
Well, maybe not just yet, but give it a few more months... and who knows. I never dreamed Mistress R would make me wait this long, although of course I wanted her to (and much more!), and it definitely seems to be making both of us very, very happy, so why not?
Monday, May 30, 2011
Friday, May 27, 2011
The Oxballs cocksling and a new site...
I was just browsing 'Keyheld' when I came across a site I've never visited before, it's called Mistress 160's Abode and while it is more a BDSM type site, it's definitely worth a visit. There's a lengthy piece about the Oxballs Cocksling (which quotes my site, so they've obviously got good taste - haha!) which is quite interesting. Seems their initial reaction to opening the box was much the same as mine, i.e.: 'that's going to be too big to grip properly', but like me, in use they found that wasn't the case, at least for slave Sol's balls.
Mistress 160 writes that slave Sol's cock wasn't quite big enough for the cocksling to assist an erection, but it wasn't far off and he was still quite happy with the sensation it produced. She also had him wear it overnight which tells me that his balls must be a lot looser than mine, because I can't wear it for more than 20 minutes at a time. However, I am working on that, because it does feel very nice and I would like to be able to wear it for longer periods (if for no other reason than that hopefully one day my nuts will be stretched enough to facilitate the wearing of a chastity device, perhaps...).
Anyway, another comment that Mistress 160 made was that when Sol was allowed to cum wearing the cocksling he said his orgasm felt kind of 'cut-off', but that it seemed to last a long time. I presume he is referring to the sensation you get when a cock-ring limits the speed at which you can ejaculate. This I find quite interesting actually, as if he claims the cocksling is a little too big to grip his cock properly, then I'm interested to know what it would feel like for me as I find the cocksling quite tight.
With that in mind I could definitely see this toy being useful for Mistress R if she wanted to let me 'ejaculate' without letting me enjoy the 'relief' of orgasm in the future, as I know that even a thin cock-ring does distort the sensation somewhat (making it 'fuzzy' at best) and this being so much tighter and thicker this should do an even better job (or worse, depending on your perspective!). Of course I can't tell you this for definite as I am not in a position to test it, what with the whole 'no touching and definitely no cumming' rule, unless perhaps Mistress R might allow me to test this at some point.
Going back to Mistress 160's Abode for a moment, there's some great posts on there and I must say I do envy Sol a little when I see the photo's of his ball-parachute being stacked with weights like that, as it must feel pretty amazing. On the other hand I know exactly what having muscle relaxant rubbed on your balls feels like and having to endure that while tied down and Queened is, well... actually probably a lot more enjoyable than some of the other things Mistress 160 seems to like to do to him!
Anyway, why don't you check out the site for yourself here.
Mistress 160 writes that slave Sol's cock wasn't quite big enough for the cocksling to assist an erection, but it wasn't far off and he was still quite happy with the sensation it produced. She also had him wear it overnight which tells me that his balls must be a lot looser than mine, because I can't wear it for more than 20 minutes at a time. However, I am working on that, because it does feel very nice and I would like to be able to wear it for longer periods (if for no other reason than that hopefully one day my nuts will be stretched enough to facilitate the wearing of a chastity device, perhaps...).
Anyway, another comment that Mistress 160 made was that when Sol was allowed to cum wearing the cocksling he said his orgasm felt kind of 'cut-off', but that it seemed to last a long time. I presume he is referring to the sensation you get when a cock-ring limits the speed at which you can ejaculate. This I find quite interesting actually, as if he claims the cocksling is a little too big to grip his cock properly, then I'm interested to know what it would feel like for me as I find the cocksling quite tight.
With that in mind I could definitely see this toy being useful for Mistress R if she wanted to let me 'ejaculate' without letting me enjoy the 'relief' of orgasm in the future, as I know that even a thin cock-ring does distort the sensation somewhat (making it 'fuzzy' at best) and this being so much tighter and thicker this should do an even better job (or worse, depending on your perspective!). Of course I can't tell you this for definite as I am not in a position to test it, what with the whole 'no touching and definitely no cumming' rule, unless perhaps Mistress R might allow me to test this at some point.
Going back to Mistress 160's Abode for a moment, there's some great posts on there and I must say I do envy Sol a little when I see the photo's of his ball-parachute being stacked with weights like that, as it must feel pretty amazing. On the other hand I know exactly what having muscle relaxant rubbed on your balls feels like and having to endure that while tied down and Queened is, well... actually probably a lot more enjoyable than some of the other things Mistress 160 seems to like to do to him!
Anyway, why don't you check out the site for yourself here.
Saturday, May 21, 2011
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